TRICKS TO CONFIDENCE
There are two mindsets
that need to be addressed if you are confident with your flaws and shortcomings you
sure that was the cause of your low self-esteem.
-Mindset one # 1: Only people who do not have flaws that can be confidently..
-Mindset one # 2: Attitude is overreaching its shortcomings.
If we can fix both of
this mindset, God willing, we will go back feeling confident despite many
shortcomings.
Noteworthy related
mindset problem is that we often feel fine but not necessarily. Regardless of
whether you feel okay or not, let us increase and improve our mindset.
How To Confidence With
Receiving Shortage
The first step is you
have to accept the shortcomings. That every person has the disadvantages of
each and also has the advantages of each.
Not only you have flaws,
but everyone else is the same, including people you admire, people who are so
great achievements.
Confident person is the
same, he has flaws. Then why are you not confident as they are? Both have
shortcomings, the difference is the way to address the shortage.
So How To Confidence
even though you feel a lot of flaws is rest assured that your shortcomings will
not hinder your success. Rest assured that they are successful and confident
also has shortcomings like you.
How to address the
shortcomings that we can be confident?
1. Many people are
trying to cover the shortfall. This can be done, for certain deficiencies that
directly influence confidence. And, this deficiency can indeed be improved.
2. Often times, we
actually do not have to bother to correct deficiencies or weaknesses, we can
focus on our strengths and become a champion on our strengths.
Indeed, not all
weaknesses or deficiencies we can ignore. There is a need to rectify. We need
to be wise in choosing where deficiencies or weaknesses that need to be
improved and which are not.
You mean that I want to
convey is that we do not continually spend time to fix all of our weaknesses
while many things we must do even ignore.
Do not let our focus is
only correct the error, but we focus on improvements to the whole. We need
Thinking Zoom In and Zoom Out in a timely manner.
Again, we need to wisely
choose where we need to improve and the man who does not. As described in The
Champion Way, there is a strategy to become champion, choosing what skills we
need to develop, do not need all the expertise we become great, just one or
several strategic skills.
Addressing Shortage With
Proportional
There was a man, which
he feels inferior because he feels the nose is very large and disturbing. He
came to a surgeon for an operation.
According to the
observations of the surgeon, the nose is big, but not too big really. Only he
himself exaggerated assumption only. Actually it could be people are not aware
or do not care about the size of her nose.
If it was indeed, a big
nose, actually for the current period where people are smart enough, rarely do
people argue for physical problems. If at all there are people who mocked
because of the physical, usually in fact he is condemned. Do excessive to address
your physical problems.
In fact, I see there are
some speakers who have disabilities, but they are so confident and powerful in
providing the materials.
Likewise with other
shortcomings, both in terms of attitude and as well as interoperability issues,
do excessive react. Attitude and ability can be improved, it also if necessary as
described above. So mediocre.
Could be what we are
facing is also faced by people who we think are great and confident. But they
reacted wisely.
The second step how to
be confident is addressing our shortcomings by not excessive. That is mediocre.
Disadvantages are shared by everyone. What is important is how we react to it.
Not how the current
state of your current that determines your life, but how you address your
shortcomings. The wrong way would make you a low self-esteem, the correct way
will make you more confident.
Attitudes must be owned,
as well as how to build confidence mental discussed in my video The Secret
Confidence. In this video explain how to believe in themselves more fully and
gradually how to be confident.
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